15 Nisan 2020, Çarşamba
saat: 11:13
how easy for people to behave as if they care about others but not to care at all...
We, people, always think of others' lives in our perspectives. We always think of they were born into the same life we have. We think that our chances are always same for them also. Although this is something valid for all genders, when I think of the women in the world, I can clearly see that women are affected more negatively than men, in these terms.
If a woman lives her life in a way she wants, she is classified under the title of being "extremely free" and "not suitable" or "not proper" however if a man decides to live a life as he wants he is called as being "brave, bold and fearless".
If a woman is strong, she is called as "bunter" however if a man is strong, he is praised by society. If a man speaks loud or a lot, many people will think that he should be right however if a woman speaks a lot or loud she is going to be judged as being a gabbler. If a man gossips about something, it will be evaluated as "passing information" if a woman "passes information" it will be called as gossip.
If a man cheats it is going to be a secret if a woman cheats, everyone is going to learn about it and she is going to be called as "the loose" in the best case scenario.
Not only men also women are doing this discrimination against women a lot. Just think of the situation when your boyfriend cheats on you. I witnessed lots of cases of cheating and what I always observed was "the other woman" was to blame than the cheater.
So this is almost the every society in the world, even the people who think that they defend human or lets focus on "the women rights" are doing this discrimination in their minds. Many men who thinks that they support equality of men and women have these prejudices in their subconscious and they are not even aware of them.
I am pretty sure many people defending women rights are defending them because it seems like "trendy" nowadays - because it is obvious that they are not aware of what "equality" means - which I can easily observe in their behaviors.
when I read or watch about the conditions of women in brothels people keep doing the same joke about "why I am so interested in".. Yeah it is kind a joke or quip, because it is expected for a "decent" woman not to deal with "non decent" stuff.
Men, go to brothels or places where they can enjoy with women but they are so hypocrites that they also look down at the women working at those places. and they are so stupid that they cant see if they are the women that they have a right to look down. those women are there mostly it is because of they are working in a industry of your needs. Here, not the women but the industry that you should look down and you are buyers of that service. If you wouldnt have the needs women wouldnt be the sellers. From this point of view if there is some one to look down at, it should be you " the men", because you are buying the service, which you "look down at".
To me, I dont care as long as women are not tortured or lets say as long as they want to work in that industry (as long as it s their will) because to me those women are no different than a medical doctor, a scientist, a pharmacist, a teacher or me, you etc. Everybody is working to live their proper lives and as no one judges a person who wants to be a teacher no one should judge a woman working at a brothel by her own will - because it is a JOB.
however this never happens and we, even women, are throwing the first stone to those women in order to feel like we have higher moral values and standards.
we, human beings are always selfish in nature however, some of us are more selfish than others.
Some of us are so low that we want to feel better and we want to feed our egos by thinking and criticizing about the others that we look down at.
Just try to be "really" more "decent" and try to feel like a "decent" human beings by just looking into the stuff that you do in your lives instead of criticizing others for what you can not or you dont do.
