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| As an engineer and a woman I understand and empathize with both perspectives. Since you won’t me able to change his perspective maybe you should consider whether you have a fixed mindset about your marriage and most importantly love. Who set the expe | ||
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| the expectation that you will always be his one and only? Or how was this expectation set? Have you tried asking him if he is willing to work on your relationship so your marriage and love will continue to cherish as long as possible? Wouldn’t it be | ||
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| Wouldn’t it be more admirable if he will work towards keeping you in his life even when times are hard instead of an effortless promise? | ||
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Thank you for your comment. Who set the expectation that I will be his one and only? I did... My background, tv shows that I watched growing up, music that I listened to, books that I read.. all those little thints added up to the mindset that lo |
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that love must be unconditional, absolute, and forever. As unrealistic as it sounds, that was my set belief about it, and still is, but yeah recently I have been trying to reconsider it. |
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He is in fact willing to live his whole life with me and face every difficulty of life together (that is as long as I am alive and breathing...) If I am dead, he said, he can love someone else again. And he can love this someone else even more. T |
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This is still hard for me to swallow. Cause I feel like if he passed away I could have never loved someone else the way I loved him, or as much as I loved him. :( The last thing you wrote, "Wouldn’t it be more admirable if he will work towards kee |
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keeping you in his life even when times are hard instead of an effortless promise?" makes actually a lot of sense. |
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| We are only on this world to plant seeds. Whether the seed grows and there is an harvest, we don’t and can’t control. With that being said... Fall in love with the work of planting seeds Instant. Do it for the harvest but don’t fall for the harvest. | ||
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very interesting and beautiful what you wrote. caring as well. whoever has you as a friend is a very lucky person. :) thank you. |
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